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Let's play the check game

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"Success is not a destination, it's a journey" - Zig Ziglar

I marvel at this quote because it makes one humble to know that success is not an actual attainment but continuous effort towards fulfillment. The joy of success does not lie in achieving a goal but after achieving one, then setting another. Little wonder organizations today recognize that their sure source of competitiveness is not in the number of sky scrappers they own but in the leverage of their intangible assets (people and relationships) towards continuous improvement.

You know when you are about setting on a journey, you pack your bags ensuring nothing important or critical to your journey is left behind. We often go like this: Passport - check; ticket - check; cash - check etc. For the journey to be successful, there are stuffs we must check before we leave home or perhaps board the vehicle. I reckon such is life too. As we go on the journey, from one junction to the other, we must continuously do the check exercise to ensure we'd be safe on the trip. I have highlighted some important checks that I reckon should be done at each junction.

1. Purpose
Yes! We must always do a purpose check. In a journey without purpose is "...time has no meaning, efforts have no reason and life has no precision" - Myles Munroe. Lets say you are at the junction of a job hunt, an application for admission into a school, or a commitment to a lifelong relationship, do a good check by asking if what you are about to enter into coincides with your purpose. If you have not discovered your purpose for life, be sure to find it, only then would like have a meaning to you.

2. Love:
The second most important check in my books is the Love check. The truth is, it is only what you are in love with that you'd be able to make sacrifices for. My advice along our journey to success is to always make the love check. What your heart is committed to, your entire soul, spirit and body would join in. When everything fails, only love remains. When stress beclouds a life, love is the only ray that makes the effort worth it. It is what you are in love with that you are not shy or scared to claim responsibility for. Don't leave that junction without this check.

3. Hope
I do not think I am the only one that hates to invest my time into something without promise. Even if you are unable to assess the future relevance of that thing now, make sure you are convinced within that it has a tomorrow. The significance of this is an intestinal fortitude to carry on even in the face of difficulties. Whatever you cannot hope in is soon gone even before you start. When the world says, "Give up", Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."

It's never too late to begin the check... Do your checks and make the right decisions. You are already a success!

- Le Dynamique Professeur

The CV of the successful

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"You have to have success and failure. Both make you better, both help you learn and both will help you fail less often. But you have to have both." - Darwin Deason
"You have got to experience setbacks. A few years after I’d started by own hedge fund, I had a terrible year. I was down 23% in 1994. I had to work hard, persevere, move ahead. By the next year I was back up 30%." - Leon Cooperman
"Everyone has to go through the process of trying to explain to someone your dreams and convince them it can be possible. It can be a humbling experience because they often don’t get it. But you need to be fully committed to your dreams and to making them real. Part of that is to be able to articulate that dream and to go out on that limb and make your case" - Diane Hendricks
All extracted from Forbes.com page titled, "Five Billionaires Share Surprising Tips For Success"

We all know what a curriculum vitae is, don't we? If you have graduated from one class or two, you'd have built yourself some sort of reputation to make you proud enough to present yourself before an employer with statements like, "I would be an asset to your organisation if given the opportunity to prove myself". As a matter of fact, the CV is meant to market your personality, success records and commendable achievements. It doesn't stop there however, it is also meant to reveal your journey to where you are. Your journey, my friend, says alot about you. Your journey, my dear reader puts you on a track to your destiny. Little wonder someone said, "success is not a destination but a journey".

My goal in life is not to be a billionaire, neither is it to be among the world's richest but I believe there's just got to be something common to all successful men: Failure. Read this, "Forbes surveyed some of America's richest about their paths to riches. Several cited one main ingredient for success: Failure". And I love what later followed, "what separates the world's most successful entrepreneurs from the wreckage is the confidence, tenacity and drive to dust themselves off and make the adjustments needed for success."

What am I driving at? I am not saying you should pride in your failures nor rejoice in them but simply, hope in and through them, for your CV needs it. The journey of success is not complete without failures. Likewise, for you to enjoy set ups to success, you must face some upsets. You must however, learn to turn your upsets into set ups for your breakthrough. You must not be found weeping as if the end has come. You must not be seen wailing as if you are the first it'd happen to. Reminds me of a time I was speaking somewhere and I told the person that I've had to repeat academic classes thrice in my life and still went on to begin a PhD degree at 23. How can you explain that?

Hear what someone had to say about Donald Trump, "no matter how bad a day he's having, he keeps his head up high and he goes back and fights some more. He doesn't go and put his head in the ground and cry."

Dear friend, have you failed before, currently failing or suffering setbacks, I implore you to HOPE even in failure, for its in your hope, you'd find strength, faith and confidence to continue. It's a journey which will end up becoming an interesting tale for others to read, enjoy and get motivated by. Don't spoil the story for others; don't be selfish!

- Le Dynamique Professeur

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